The man who saved you after you became a shell of your former self... who picked you up off the street and gave you a place to stay... is an older guy with a sex addiction! In a small sweltering room, the two of you have sweaty co-dependent sex....
He is your husband, and a gender-less boy. He seems to think you're so cute that he can't handle it. He will gently envelop your delicate soul in his kindness.